My Superwomen by Asma Abrar Hashmi 1st year
“On Women” the topic said. “On women,huhh??” I thought “.So this
is what it’s gonna be .The same lengthy monotonous articles on women
empowerment and gender equality”.
And as I sit here ,solemnly staring at the ceiling fan of my room (on the night of my General
Anatomy test) gathering ideas , something clicks!! And just like that ,I know
exactly what I am going to write.
I am going to avail this time and space to thank all those
wonderful women in my life who have empowered me.Who have endured my attitude
problems and mood swings and have stayed.Never letting go of me.Who have stuck
with me through thick and thin .Never giving up on me. The women who have been
my partners in insanity and craziness. Never missing any slightest chance of
having fun. The women who have prayed for me ,cried for me in their Sujood. The women ,who,having dreamt
a bad dream about me have called right away to make sure I was alright.The
women who have had all that badly cooked food with the most sweetest undeserved
compliments.The women who have brushed hair from my feverish head allowing me
to cry myself to sleep in their laps.The women who have been my buddies in all
those failed baking experiments and have helped me finish up those burnt
cookies.Those who have always been available for those last moment shopping
sprees, those late night snacks.
So I take this opportunity to thank them all, for their
unwavering support ,for their consistent love and for keeping up with me.
Thank you Ma’am Humaira
Jawad for being there when I was emotionally shattered and most
vulnerable to succumb to the negativities of life. Thank you for holding my
hand and telling me what I was worthy of .For telling me that I deserved better
.Thank you for sparking my ambitions into my passion. For going that extra mile
for me when no one else was willing to . I did notice. You are simply the best and you certainly
brought out the best in me .Your belief in me made me believe in myself.
Thank you Mama, for being you. You being you has been the
greatest blessing of my life .Though no words can encompass what your presence
has meant to me but know that if there is any reason I stand straight today with my head held high, no longer in conflict
with my own principles ,Its You .For all the times I never said thank you
because I thought you knew, I thank you now. Living in this crazy world with
you to go back home to is much better than a smooth stress free life without
having you around .I wish that someday I can be half the person you are today.
Above all ,thank you for being my friend.
Last but not the least , my best friends ,Irtiqua ,Hareem
and Ammara .I thank you all for those ordinary moments that became
extraordinary by your sheer presence in
them. Thank you guys for thinking of me as often as you do, for making the extra effort to understand
me, for walking one extra lap after another just to listen to me blabber on and
on about my problems .For being as crazy as you guys are ;as quirky as you are.
Thank you for being my biggest critics , for giving me that extra push whenever
I stumble, for the purity of your full attention , for being just one call away
whenever I need you .For those hours long late night conversations about
nothing in particular , those hilarious birthday texts ,for calling back
instantly on a single missed call ,for those midnight snacks , and for being
the complete weirdos that you people are. It’s like Donald Miller said and I quote;
Each friend represents a world in us. A world possibly not born until they
arrive.
Thank you for being the people with whom I can drop the
undermost undergaments of dissimulation , courtesy and second thought that I
never put off anywhere.
And here is to all those beautiful women in my life who
are possibly just one person to the rest of the world but mean the world to me.
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ReplyDeleteMashAllah, it's lovely to read such a beautiful blog. Accepting and appreciating people who mean a lot to you is not easy but after reading this blog I was really touched, seeing how you have appreciated each and every person who meant a lot to you! Especially when I read the paragraph in which you mentioned my mom.....it just made me smile and say "You are simply awesome!" ♡♡♡
ReplyDeleteP.S: I'm Fatima Jawwad daughter of your teacher,,, now approximately the same age as you were when you were with my mother.